my unheard question
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
I win I win!!
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
爱不单行&爱我 好吗
找不到人说 心里的寂寞
找不到人懂 怕黑的折磨
找不到命中注定 在一起的那个人
很多人都像我 一个人过生活
chous
爱 只有简单笔画 却比想象复杂
恨安定爱变化
我爱过几个人 也被爱过几遍
却还是没能将幸福留下
爱 是不可数的吗 为何我还相信
它不是独行侠
我在等一个人 在等我的永恒
告诉我爱不单行别害怕
verse 2
用不完身边 泛滥的自由
开始怕 孤单 是一种诅咒
羡慕我能飞的人 为何在天黑以后
还是宁愿回到 爱情那个枷锁
repeat chorus
告诉我爱不单行相信它
The end~----我的孤单谁了解呢?----
*爱我 好吗*
虽然收敛了许多的情感
还是泄露了我的不安
于是你开始冷淡
我也开始问自己该怎么办
如果你知道我的遗憾
千万 不要再不以为然
我的生活已经混乱
到处漂流却始终靠不了岸
chorus
这是我最后
最美 最真
最心碎的留言
Oh 爱我 好吗
我愿意让伤心再来一遍
只要你留一个位置给我
哪怕是在你心中
最容易被忽略的角落
------是对个会一直留在心里的人唱的------
傻笑着&走
我关了电视机
我的世界突然变得好安静
太安静
我打开了窗口
对着外面的冷世界唱着歌
我唱着歌
路人多 在笑着我（不明白我）
从何时开始我很寂寞
chorus
傻笑着
已经没有眼泪
可以让我留下纪念
已经没有感动
让你出现在心里面
我不懂
为何要让自己
感受心痛
深深伤痕
我傻笑着
*走*
闭上眼睛不再让泪流
停止呼吸倒数到五
谁能够说明心痛的感受
我们各走各的路
我还能说些什么
明明想得到自由
不能怪彼此的错
迟早都要放手
所以没什么好难过
不再让回忆留着问候
chorus
我不想往前走
但也不能再退后
忘记曾经拥有
但心里留着你的所有
不能再想念
是我给自己的承诺
这条路太寂寞
只好独自继续走
--------by yasmine--------
Friday, April 2, 2010
“ ENFP ”(外向 直觉 情感 知觉)
热情洋溢、富有想象力。认为生活是充满很多可能性。能很快地将事情和信息联系起来，然后很自信地根据自己的判断解决问题。很需要别人的肯定，又乐于欣赏和支持别人。灵活、自然不做作，有很强的即兴发挥的能力 ，言语流畅。
ENFP型的人充满热情和新思想。他们乐观、自然、富有创造性和自信，具有独创性的思想和对可能性的强烈感受。对于 ENFP型的人来说，生活是激动人生的戏剧。 ENFP型的人对可能性很感兴趣，所以他们了解所有事物中的深远意义。他们具有洞察力，是热情的观察者，注意常规以外的任何事物。ENFP型的人好奇，喜欢理解而不是判断。 ENFP型的人具有想象力、适应性和可变性，他们视灵感高于一切，常常是足智多谋的发明人。ENFP型的人不墨守成规，善于发现做事情的新方法，为思想或行为开辟新道路，并保持它们的开放。在完成新颖想法的过程中，ENFP型的人依赖冲动的能量。他们有大量的主动性，认为问题令人兴奋。他们也从周围其他人中得到能 量，把自己的才能与别人的力量成功地结合在一起。 ENFP型的人具有魅力、充满生机。他们待人热情、彬彬有礼、富有同情心，愿意帮助别人解决问题。他们具有出色的洞察力和观察力，常常关心他人的发展。 ENFP型的 人避免冲突，喜欢和睦。他们把更多的精力倾注于维持个人关系而不是客观事物，喜欢保持一种广泛的关系。
您适合的领域有：未有明显的限定领域
您适合的职业有:
· 人力资源经理
· 变革管理顾问
· 营销经理
· 企业／团队培训师
· 广告客户经理
· 战略规划人员
· 宣传人员
· 事业发展顾问
· 环保律师
· 研究助理
· 播音员
· 开发总裁
· 广告创意
· 广告撰稿人
· 市场营销和宣传策划
· 市场调研人员
· 公关专家
· 公司对外发言人
· 儿童教育老师
· 大学老师（人文类）
· 心理学工作者
· 心理辅导和咨询人员
· 职业规划顾问
· 社会工作者
· 演讲家
· 记者（访谈类）
· 节目策划和主持人
· 专栏作家
· 剧作家
· 设计师
· 卡通制作者
· 电影、电视制片人
问问自己：我怎样才能更好地服务于人类？回答这个问题并付诸实践。发现你独一无二的天赋，用它来为人类服务，你可以创造出自己所需要的所有财富。当你富有创造里的语言与你的同胞们发生共鸣时，财富就会自动涌现，由潜在的变为实际的，由精神领域的变为物质领域的。
“ ENFP ”(外向 直觉 情感 知觉)
| 才储©分析：您的性格类型倾向是“ ENFP ”(外向 直觉 情感 知觉) 热情洋溢、富有想象力。认为生活是充满很多可能性。能很快地将事情和信息联系起来，然后很自信地根据自己的判断解决问题。很需要别人的肯定，又乐于欣赏和支持别人。灵活、自然不做作，有很强的即兴发挥的能力 ，言语流畅。 ENFP型的人充满热情和新思想。他们乐观、自然、富有创造性和自信，具有独创性的思想和对可能性的强烈感受。对 于 ENFP型的人来说，生活是激动人生的戏剧。 ENFP型的人对可能性很感兴趣，所以他们了解所有事物中 的深远意义。他们具有洞察力，是热情的观察者，注意常规以外的任何事物。ENFP型的人好奇，喜欢理解而不是判断。 ENFP型的人具有想象力、适应性和可变性，他们视灵感高于一切，常常是足智多谋的发明人。ENFP型的 人不墨守成规，善于发现做事情的新方法，为思想或行为开辟新道路，并保持它们的开放。在完成新颖想法的过程中，ENFP型的人依赖冲动的能量。他们有大量 的主动性，认为问题令人兴奋。他们也从周围其他人中得到能 量，把自己的才能与别人的力量成功地结合在一起。 ENFP型的人具有魅力、充满生机。他们待人热情、彬彬有礼、富有同情心，愿意帮助别人解决问题。他们具有出色的洞察力和观察力，常常关心他人的发展。 ENFP型的 人避免冲突，喜欢和睦。他们把更多的精力倾注于维持个人关系而不是客观事物，喜欢保持一种广泛的关系。 您适合的领域有：未有明显的限定领域 · 人力资源经理 问问自己：我怎样才能更好地服务于人类？回答这个问题并付诸实践。发现你独一无二的天赋，用它来为人类服务，你可以创造出自己所需要的所有财富。当你富有创造里的语言与你的同胞们发生共鸣时，财富就会自动涌现，由潜在的变为实际的，由精神领域的变为物质领域的。 |
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
哭笑不得的感觉。。。
答案：我不知道。
你有过那种感觉吗？那种让你哭笑不得的感觉。。。
当你爱他爱到无法自拔的地步。每天早上醒来时，想到他，希望他今天会开心，希望他可以笑着面对新的一天。如果他不开心，就算对方不是你，你也希望他可以找个好朋友说他不开心的原因。如果他在搞笑，就算不是你，你也希望有个人会帮忙笑他的搞笑。如果他没自信，就算不是你，你也希望有个人在他面前帮他加油，让他恢复他原有的自信。如果他忍着眼泪，就算不是你，你也希望有个人看得出他在忍着不哭，而就算不是对你，也希望他可以不再忍了，放声大哭。。。。。你会不忍心看到他孤单，就算不是你，你也希望有个人在陪着他，不让他再孤单。不忍心看到他太勤力让自己太累，不忍心看到他一直为别人付出却不要求回报。。。。你会很心疼他。。。好象是你活着的原因就是为了让他开心，就算最后伤心的是你也无所谓，就算他不知道你付出也无所谓，就算他最后选择的不是你也无所谓。。。
老实说我又爱又恨这种感觉。。。有时我会觉得很幸福，有时却会觉得孤单。。。怎么办呢？你有过这种感觉吗？
Friday, March 12, 2010
Creativity Test
You are more right-brained than left-brained. The right side of your brain controls the left side of your body. In addition to being known as right-brained, you are also known as a creative thinker who uses feeling and intuition to gather information. You retain this information through the use of images and patterns. You are able to visualize the "whole" picture first, and then work backwards to put the pieces together to create the "whole" picture. Your thought process can appear quite illogical and meandering. The problem-solving techniques that you use involve free association, which is often very innovative and creative. The routes taken to arrive at your conclusions are completely opposite to what a left-brained person would be accustomed. You probably find it easy to express yourself using art, dance, or music. Some occupations usually held by a right-brained person are forest ranger, athlete, beautician, actor/actress, craftsman, and artist.  Your complete evaluation follows below: | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Your left brain/right brain percentage was calculated by combining the individual scores of each half's sub-categories. They are as follows: Your Left Brain Percentages
Your Right Brain Percentages
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What Do These Percentages Mean?
Low percentages are common in the Brain Type Test and are not indicative of intelligence. Instead, medium to high scores (30 - 50%) are desireable, as they show an ability to utilize a processing method without an abnormal reliance on it. Special focus should be paid to highly dominant (50% or above) or highly recessive (0 - 30%) methods, as they tend to limit your approach when learning, memorizing, or solving problems.
If you have Highly Dominant characteristics, your normal thinking patterns will naturally utilize these methods. Conscious effort is required to recognize the benefits of other techniques. Using multiple forms of information processing is the best way to fully understand complex issues and become a balanced thinker.
If you have Highly Recessive characteristics, your normal thinking patterns naturally ignore these methods. You may only consider these under-utilized techniques when "all else fails," or possibly not at all. It is important to recognize the benefits of all of your brain's capabilities in order to become a balanced thinker.
Left Brain Categories
Reality-based Processing
Reality-based processing is used by the left hemisphere as a method for processing information with a basis on reality. This processing tool focuses on rules and regulations. An example of this would be how a left-brained person would completely understand the repercussions of turning in a late assignment or failing a test. A left-brained person also usually easily adjusts to changes in their environment.
Your Reality-based Analysis
You process information with a basis in reality, but are not limited to it. You may recognize the repercussions of you actions, but proceed to do something anyway, in the heat of the moment. You can complete projects to whice you are emotionally attached as well as random tasks.
Linear Processing
Linear processing is a method by the left hemisphere to process information. In this process, the left brain takes pieces of information, lines them up, and proceeds to arrange them into an order from which it may draw a conclusion. The information is processed from parts to a whole in a straight, forward, and logical progression.
Your Linear Analysis
When processing information using this method, you will occasionally feel the need to see the "whole picture" before you are able to achieve results. At other times, you are able to piece all of the parts together in a straight and logical progression to form a whole, which then enables you to understand what you have processing. The information, your mood, and your level of comfortable are all factors that determine your response to a linear processing problem.
Sequential Processing
Sequential processing is a method used by the left hemisphere for processing information. The information that is received is processed in order from first to last. Information is processed in a systematic, logical manner. Through sequential processing, you can interpret and produce symbolic information such as language, mathematics, abstraction, and reasoning. This process is used to store memory in a language format. Activities that require sequential processing include spelling, making a "to-do" list, and many aspects of organization.
Your Sequential Analysis
You show moderate ability to organize information sequentially. You are capable of processing information you receive in a systematic, logical order from first to last. However, at times you will process information you receive quite randomly, or may give it only a semblance of order. You are probably an average mathematician and speller, and may or may not enjoy tasks such as making "to-do" lists.
Symbolic Processing
Symbolic processing is a method associated with the left hemisphere that is used for processing the information of pictures and symbols. The majority of functions associated with academics involve symbols such as letters, words, and mathematical notations. This process is what aids you to excel in tasks such as linguistics, mathematics, and memorizing vocabulary words and mathematical formulas.
Your Symbolic Analysis
You have the ability to process the information of symbols at times, but you may need to first view the real object before you can understand what you are trying to process. For example, in solving math problems it occasionally helps you to "draw out" the problem, which allows you to better understand it through visualization. At other times you do not need visualization to aid you in forming your answers.
Logical Processing
Logical processing is a method that is used by the left hemisphere to take information piece by piece and put it all together to form a logical answer. When information is received through reading or listening, the left hemisphere will look for different bits of information that will allow it to produce a logical conclusion. This aspect of the left hemisphere is what aids you in solving math problems and science experiments.
Your Logical Analysis
Logical processing is not one of your strengths, so you may tend to rely on a "gut" feeling to help you make your decisions from the information you have received. For example, you will often choose an answer on a test because it "feels" right, and you may be correct. This is due to the fact of your tendency to look for the whole picture but not the details that create it. You can often start with the answer and work your way back to allow yourself to see the process and parts that create the whole. You may find math problems and science experiments difficult because of this.
Verbal Processing
Verbal processing is a method used by the left hemisphere to process our thoughts and ideas with words. For example, through verbal processing, a left-brained person giving directions may say, "From this point continue east for two miles and turn north onto Bellevue Road. Continue north on Bellevue Road for seven miles and turn west on Main Street". With verbal processing, exact, logical directions are given in a very sequential manner compared to a right-brained person who, in giving the same directions, would use more visual landmarks.
Your Verbal Analysis
You are not a verbal person. When you process your thoughts, you tend to use very few words, preferring instead to illustrate a problem or solution. You often find yourself in situations where it is hard for you to "find the right words." Upon reading or hearing new information, you must first create a "mental video" before you can process and understand the information of your thoughts. For example, when giving directions, you probably use many gestures with your hands such as pointing and leaning, and also refer to visual structures such as "a McDonalds" or "the big tree" instead of street names or exact mileage.
Right Brain Categories
Intuitive Processing
Intuitive processing is a method that is used by the right hemisphere to process information based on if it "feels" right or not. For example, a right-brained person may choose an answer on a test because they had a "gut" feeling and often they will be correct. Another example of this is how a right-brained person will know the correct answer to a math problem but will not understand the procedure of how they arrived at the correct answer. A right-brained person will usually have to start with the answer and work their way backwards in order to be able to see and understand the parts and process that create the whole.
Your Intuitive Analysis
When processing information, at times you are able to go with your "gut" instincts. At other times you may doubt your instincts, or prefer to put information together piece by piece to form your conclusion. You should be careful not to ignore your intuition, but at the same time do not solely rely on it.
Nonverbal Processing
Nonverbal processing is a method used by the right hemisphere to process our thoughts with illustrations. Reliance on this method is why it is occasionally difficult for right-brained people to "find the right words" in certain situations. A right-brained person cannot just read or hear information and process it, but first must make a mental video to better understand the information they have received. For example, through nonverbal processing, a person giving directions may say, "Continue going straight until you see a big, red-brick courthouse. At the courthouse turn right, and go down that street for a couple of miles until you se a gray stone church which will be on your right. Straight across from the church is the road to the left you need to take." With nonverbal processing, the directions that are given are extremely visual compared to the exact, sequential directions that would be given by a left-brained person.
Your Nonverbal Analysis
When processing your thoughts and ideas, you use tend to use both illustrations and words. When giving directions, you probably use both visual illustrations such as, "keep going until you see a McDonalds on your right; then turn left at the Home Depot", and technical terms such as, "travel for two miles and turn east onto First Street."
Fantasy-oriented Processing
Fantasy-oriented processing is used by the right hemisphere as a method for processing information with creativity. It focuses much less on rules and regulations than the processing method of a left-brained person. Due to the fantasy-oriented processing mechanism of a right-brained person, they do not adjust well to change. Instead of adapting to the change in the environment, a right-brained person attempts to change it back to the way they liked it. But fantasy-oriented processing also provides the advantage of creativity to right-brained individuals, and since emotion is integral of the right side of the brain, anything a fantasy-oriented person becomes involved in emotionally will aid their ability to learn.
Your Fantasy-oriented Analysis
You have the ability to use both creativity and reality to process the information you receive. This is a unique gift that allows you to both focus on rules and regulations but to also act with creativity. You are able to adjusting to change, even though you might not like it, and you can become emotionally involved in your work if it interests you.
Random Processing
Random processing is a method used by the right hemisphere for processing information. The information that is received is processed without priority. A right-brained person will usually jump from one task to another due to the random processing by their dominant right hemisphere. Random processing is, of course, the opposite of sequential processing therefore making it difficult for right-brained individuals to choose to learn in sequence. In order to overcome this, a right-brained person may want to attempt to learn sequence by using colors since the right hemisphere is sensitive to color. For example, you may want to associate the first step with green, the second step with blue, and the last step with red. Consistently using the same sequence will allow you to see that this strategy can be applied to many tasks involving sequence.
Your Random Analysis
You have some ability to process data randomly. You are at times able to make "leaps of logic" and discover unique things by thinking "outside of the box." However, you may tend to ignore your random processing thoughts unless you are desperate for a solution. It is important you recognize this skill as not grasping at straws, but a viable way to discover new ways of approaching a problem.
Concrete Processing
Concrete processing is a method associated with the right hemisphere that is used for processing things that can be seen or touched. It processes much of the information you receive from real objects. For example, a right-brained person is not just satisfied that a mathematical formula may work, but will want to know why it works. A strongly concrete person often finds it easier to solve a mathematical problem by "drawing it out" because it allows them to visualize it. The more a concrete person can visualize something the easier it is for them to understand it.
Your Concrete Analysis
At times, you feel the need to see a real object in order to understand it. At other times, you are able to understand a problem on a symbolic level. For example, you may find that in solving math problems, it occasionally helps you to "draw out" the problem in order to understand and solve it.
Holistic Processing
Holistic processing is a method used by the right hemisphere to process information. The information is processed from whole to parts. A right-brained person, through holistic processing, is able to see the big picture first, but not the details that accompany it. A strongly holistic person may often find that prior to listening to a lecture given by an instructor, they must first read the chapter so that they better understand what the lecture is about. This function is also what provides to you your visual spatial skills. It also aids in tasks such as dancing and gymnastics. Through holistic processing, memory is stored in auditory, visual, and spatial modalities.
Your Holistic Analysis
You have difficulty seeing the whole picture, especially at the beginning of a project. You tend to process information you receive from its parts to its whole in a straight, progressive manner. When given a task, you tend to not bother asking "why," but instinctively are able to do it.
Friday, March 5, 2010
天蝎座
爱、恨分明性格激烈
蝎子对你有多少爱情，就有多少的性欲；他有多麽想占有你，就有多麽为你节制他的情感。他的确是一个爱、恨分明，性格激烈的人。爱上你，他便义无 反顾，奉献热情与百分之百的忠诚、贡献私房钱、牺牲自我的享受，淋漓尽玫把疯狂与爱意紧密结合。他处为你设想，时时提着一颗护卫你的心，以为的快乐为他的 快乐。但是天蝎座人不愿轻易将自己的情人曝光。也不为什麽，他就是不愿意。这跟他的情人见不见得了人，没关系直到已经论及婚嫁，才会把情人介绍给亲朋好 友。忠实与完全的爱，是蝎子最最在乎的。才情与美好的肉体，蝎子不会舍不得，却会一时被迷惑得很惨。他受不了背叛，自己也极少有背叛别人的事迹。一旦背叛 了他，等於抹煞了他所有的忠诚、爱、奉献和牺牲，这样会激怒他，逼他走上复仇的路。不过并非每只蝎子的复仇性格都极明显Ｏ型蝎子最强，Ａ型次之，ＡＢ型再 次之，Ｂ型最弱。
自尊心强沈默中具有攻击性
蝎子的自尊心很强，忍受不了别人对他的轻忽。他喜欢前往一个受重视的工作环境，他努力使自己成为举足轻重的角色。通常，在一个新环境中，蝎子不 会一去就以高姿态出现，宁可谦虚在暗角里，观察别人的表现。他看起来会十分沈默，但是那分沈默令人感到他是在蓄势待发，这将使别人觉得不安，隐约觉得他具 有出奇致胜的攻击性。不过，外表上，天蝎人看起来总是和善的，经常保持礼貌性的微笑，也会主动以亲切的语气与人寒暄。他不是企图跟别人打成一片，只是想藉 此消除别人对他的戒心和敌意。可是，他并不常成功。因为，蝎子天生具有奇异的气质，沈默是一种欲盖弥彰的防卫手法，他还是免不了让别人觉得有压迫感。故， 有些蝎子自知有引人侧目的气质，便会刻意「微服出巡」，以为如此便可以自在些。事实上，他除了有引人侧目的气质外，还有喜欢别人对他侧目的天性。所以，就 不必多费心去遮饰自己了。
天蝎座的人有强劲的体力，以及丰富的构想，并具有管理自己的方法，往往可以用一种不可思议的魅力去魅惑别人。然而，由於自制心强，又带有神秘色彩，所以也让人感到难以接近的一面。
思虑周密，体贴是天蝎座最大的优点，可是却很少表现出来。天蝎座的防卫心重，很少有能够对别人完全放心的，不过却能严守他人的秘密，绝不露出 去，这点和射手座的是不同的。天蝎座很适合做一个可靠的朋友或情人，可是，当你要和他一起过活，事情可就没有这麽简单了。因为天蝎座的人真诚而率直，不管 对自己或对他人的批评，都是赤裸裸而残酷的。他们经常会以真挚的态度去追求事实，所以，有些朋友或情人，会因不堪忍受这种情形而离他远去。
其他星座的人，很少有能像天蝎座那样善於化身并复活的。激烈的感情及强烈的性格，正足以说明他们内心的纠结与曲折。对天蝎座来说，在一生当中， 会有一，两次徨在心理上的生与死的境界。如果想避免这样的情况，必须根据自己的经验及历练，将自己改换一下，并收集破坏的碎片予以再造，使之复活。
天蝎座天生具有一种动人的魅力，不论对人或对物，都能加以支配，并从中获得最大的喜悦。有精力，胆子大，感情丰富，有耐性，具敏锐的洞察力，神 秘而且有野心，这些特质合成一股惑人的魅力。不过，也有过度自豪，攻击性，残酷，具破坏性，走极端，独断，不道德又固执等缺点。生殖器官，骨盆周边和鼻 子，咽喉等是天蝎座人较脆弱的部位。损害天蝎座身体健康的原因大都是因太过勉强引起的。但是由於生命以及恢复力都很强劲，所以只要充足的睡眠，以及新鲜的 空气，就可以使他们的身体恢复活力。天蝎座的人很爱在後头观察别人，但他绝不是阴险小人，他光明正大得很。
天蝎座的人不会主动招惹别人就像他不希望有人来招惹他一般。
有时不爱说话并且持神秘的感觉，外表也许是冰冷的模样，但内心却是热情得要命。
他有着特殊的魅力，尤其是他那会剌穿人灵魂深处的眼神。他是个天生的复仇者，任何伤害过他的人，事，物，通常都没有好下场。
他很够朋友，但这仅限於你是他的朋友，如果你背叛了他，那你就会是他的敌人。
他的思想及行为有时相当极端，他可以作个好人，也可能是坏人喔！！！
天蝎座个性强悍而不妥协，也非常好胜，这是一种自我要求的自我超越，以不断填补内心深处的欲望。也由於如此，蝎族的人在心中总订有一个目标，非常有毅力，以不屈不挠的斗志和战斗力，深思熟虑的朝目标前进。
也由於是水象星座的缘故，在情感上亦属多愁善感的敏锐型，但却以自我为中心，对别人的观点亦完全不予理会。通常他们是深情而且多情的，虽然表面上看起来很平静、温文儒雅、沈默寡言，但内心却是波涛汹涌。他们在决定行动时会表现的大胆积极，属於敢爱敢恨的类型。
总之，天蝎座是一个有强烈责任感、韧性强、有概念、会组织（条理化）、意志力强、支配欲强烈，对於生命的奥秘有独特见解的本能，并且永远有着充沛精力的微妙复杂－－『混合体』。
★优点★
天蝎座人有谋略、富洞悉事物重点的能力。情绪十分敏感、感情细腻而具有丰富的想像力，果决、实际而热情，主观意见强、意志坚定、有毅力，一般人容易厌倦而逃避的事情，往往能坚忍固执的做下去。机敏、聪明、悟力高。富直觉能力。
★缺点★
天蝎座有干涉别人事物的倾向，冲动、急进、善妒、易怒、顽固、倔强、难驾驭、多疑、善变、心机较深、太感情用事、好冒险，常有狂妄的梦想。对於食物美酒常会过度纵欲，个性阴险、冷漠，时常利用诡计与机智去击败敌人。
★性格★
过人的精力是天蝎座人深藏不露的本钱，其他人往往想不到这一点而不知防范，要是将这份精力应用在正途上，其所具有的持久耐力，能不屈不挠地追求 目标，直到完成，使他能在激烈的竞争中，脱颖而出。天蝎座人的占有欲、嫉妒心和报复心都极重，不只在情感上如此，其他方面也无法忍受别人的超越，甚至会因 而采取冷酷的手段，施以报复。
天蝎座人冷静、精明、忠於自己的欲望，毫不理会别人的想法。专横霸道、擅保密及掩饰真象、工於计谋、个性阴沈、让人捉摸不定。全神贯注是天蝎座 人格上最大的特色，因此一旦确立目标以後，就会全力以赴。几乎所有和天蝎座有关的描述，都强调了他在情感上的深刻，事实上此星座的人对生命中其他领域也都 赋予同样的热情，他喜欢将自己的生命发挥到极致，不论工作上或是游戏方面都会有过分卖力的倾向，但对目标之强烈和真诚，会导致过份苛求。
★心智表现★
天蝎座的人外表冰冷内在热情，富有好奇心，很有眼光。他们天生具有吸引别人的磁力，周身散发着活力、刺激而迷人的气息。虽然天蝎座的人天生不乏推理及分析的能力，能够一眼看穿自己所面临的难题，但是他的直觉感应却更为悯锐，因而往往会有不按牌理出牌的表现。
他所以喜欢面临困难，并非他对困难本身有特别的嗜好，而是他想要知道自己面对困难时会有什麽样的反应。创新、大胆、喜欢权势，要随时抑制过份强 烈的意志和独断独行的倾向，高傲的个性与冲动的行为易树立敌人，应多宽容别人不同的想法与作风。是很卓越健谈的人物，很受欢迎，表现出独立而井然有序的精 神及敏锐的外交能力，能够很容易自朋友那儿得到他所想要的，因此可能很容易被惯坏而变得自我中心。
白羊座的他
你们两人都是个性强、不服输的人，所以碰在一起的话会互相伤害，谁也不愿让谁，最後只弄得两败俱伤、伤痕累累，如果两人中没人让步的话，可能性也就很少。
合适度50%
金牛座的他
综合看来两人为相当合得来的一对，梦想着投入温暖怀抱的你和认真工作、为前途而努力的他，相信彼此的未来将是一片光明，心中洋溢着幸福。
合适度70%
双子座的他
他是个健谈而爱说话的人，你是个能够当好听众的人，所以一搭一唱刚刚好，只是就是少了一个牵红线的人，如果靠友人、双亲介绍的相亲方式也不坏。
合适度50%
巨蟹座的他
你们两人从相识到相恋需要花花上好一段时间，但是如果一旦确定彼此的关系後，则进展迅速，两人都能开阖自己的心窗，互相让对方分享多事。
合适度90%
狮子座的他
开放而活泼外向的他非常不喜欢多愁善感、情绪起伏很大的你，而你也不喜欢爱出锋头、虚荣的他，彼此间需要时间去互乡相了解。
合适度30%
处女座的他
他是个重家庭、追求安定生活的人，你也是追求生活中的一分稳定，因此两人想法、价值观都差不多，有着共同奋斗、努力的目标。
合适度70%
天秤座的他
你们认识的方式以相亲为最好，因位你们的感情大都是从婚後才开始培养的，结婚以後才渐渐认识对方，发觉对方的好，能够携手共度人生的一对。
合适度50%
天蝎座的他
两人同属天蝎座，由於都属於不容易出真心话的人，因此成为情侣前要花好一段时间，可是若突破这个瓶颈後，则柳暗花明、通行无阻，相当合适的一对。
合适度90%
射手座的他
他是个我行我素、好玩的人，常让你一个人提心吊胆、东猜西疑的，不胜疲惫，如果他也能把你带进他的领域的话，将有所不同。
合适度50%
摩羯座的他
你们可说是相敬如宾的一对，彼此今间保持某程度的距离，随着交往而越发现对方的优点，你的温柔、他的稳重，更增加彼此的信赖感。
合适度70%
水瓶座的他
你们两人是完全相反的类型，一个是典型的理想主义者，一个是典型的现实主义者，似乎是完全不可能有交集的两条平行线，如果相爱的话，则必须努力的创造一些共同的目标、兴趣。
合适度30%
双鱼座的他
不论在精神上或肉体上，非常能够和谐的一对，不需言词只要一些眼神、肢体语言就可表达一切。可是如果他的工作上遇挫折时，你可能会弃他不顾，整个心冷却下来。
合适度90%
november12-22
个人星是月亮—她是个性的最伟大模型，是天堂的母后，主掌尘世。非常多情，好幻想，善变而且骄傲的个性。对艺术和戏剧有显着的才能，其人格涵蕴着浪漫，幻 想和神秘的特质，有吸引力的人格和怜悯的天性，能赢得别人的欢迎和认同，火星和月亮的配合的确很幸运，因火星是侵略性的，有力量的，会奋力去驱使它的子民 达成目标。
november 19-能创新，有冒险进取的精神，性情和谐知足，可能很容易满足而丧失克服阻难之动机，要培养自信心和获取成功的实际方法，应结交快活的同伴和成功的伴侣。天蝎座女子V.S.十二星座男人(天蝎座女人)
白羊座
冤家型的组合,他是让你心疼又被你宠坏的大男孩,但顽皮的他却总是让你又气又伤心。
金牛座
你们都很重视对方,对彼此也有着相当的信赖与尊重,但又些时候在意见沟通上常发生阻碍。
双子座
那通常不是你可以相信而付出感情的对象,彼此不太容易有非常深刻的交往。
巨蟹座
你们在感情上可以配合得很好,彼此都会诚恳而全心的付出,不过,在气势上往往是你占上风。
狮子座
彼此深深的吸引,却在相处的过程中,发?{个性上有太多的不同。往往会成为相爱又互相折磨的伴侣。
处女座
你会享受他对你无微不至的叮咛,欣赏他唠唠叨叨的样子。在他面前,你一会儿像母亲,一会儿像个顽皮的小女孩。
天秤座
你们多半保持一些距离。秤座的面面俱到会让你觉得不够真实。而你的爱怨分明可能无法与他取得共鸣。
天蝎座
这可是高手过招,有好戏看了。你们好的时候如胶似漆,不好的时候就像是叁世仇家。
射手座
你们爱的方式差别很大。虽然彼此之间有吸引力,结果往往是你气得半死,而他跑得不知踪影。
摩羯座
你们的结合对彼此都很有帮助,你们都是有坚强意志的人,相互配合很容易开创美好前途。
水瓶座
对於事情的看法,你们差距很大,如要长相守,最好你能学会尊重他的空间。
双鱼座
你们的心灵很容,彼此能完全体会到对方的爱意。在生活上,你通常得要扮演照顾他的角色。
美不美？
昨天我开了一位老朋友的facebook profile看看，她呢？变了好多哦。变了很漂亮，也变了很爱音乐。。。听说，她会弹吉他，打爵士鼓和唱歌。哦，还有，她长高了。。。我好嫉妒她哦。她年龄小过我，以前她都当我是姐姐，什么都想跟我一样，现在。。。她长大了。感觉上她活得比我更有趣。怎么办呢？天蝎座的我，嫉妒心最强了。
可是，她有一样东西让我有点不喜欢她。她是christian了。而我这一生中最不爽的人就是christian。要我说不爽他们的什么是有点难讲。总之不爽就是不爽！
去年我们有见面。她很安静，也死在那里放电！！有点cheap。。。因为她告诉我她对男生一点兴趣也没有。别假假啦！！
我说的话，可能会让你觉得我很坏。。。我心机是有点重啦。我可以很老实的说，我真的不希望我们会爱上同一个男生。实在是太危险了！！我们的个性完全不同，所以如果想挣男人的话，不是她就是我会输得很惨。而且我都已经输在外表那方面了。她千万不能像我一样疯狂的爱上罗志祥！只要有她在，我的自信会降低。。。结果连魅力也会跟着消失。哼！我们最好别再见面了。。。我会怕怕啊！！
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
搞砸了。。。
不是我搞砸啦！我刚刚在黄鸿昇的blog那里听到他的这首歌。“又被我搞砸了又搞砸了。。。”我还没听完，可是就单单那句就能让我不停地在重复唱。嗯。。。我想我还是上一下youtube去把它听完吧！。。。。
不错不错！！“又被我搞砸了又搞砸了，又伤了她的心。。。”可是。。。如果你那么爱她/他的话，当初为何要伤他/她的心呢？有些事情，不管你说了多少次对不起，还是会无法被原谅的。
但这也要看你是对怎样的人做错什么事啦！我不敢说别人，所以就说说自己吧！可是。。。有时连我都无法了解自己的想法。例如：有时你骂我说我懒，我会恨你一辈子。但有时你对我说了同一句，我反而会搞笑着说：“对啊！我们可以比懒而我一定会赢！”奇怪吧？
不知为什么，我突然有好多话想说出来。可是我好懒噢！用华文打真累啊！算了！就当是不重要的，所以不写了。晚安！噢对！有一句我是一定要说的！！今晚。。。也太太太太太。。。。热了吧！！！！！天啊！救命啊！
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
I'm so sorry...
YESTERDAY....
没想到，他们（娱乐百分百的制作人）竟然找到罗志祥的初恋女友！！怎么可能？？！！不可以这样啦！
我会有那么大的反应，我想谁都懂吧？如果你真的不懂的话，让我来告诉你这个非常简单的道理。。。
对我们，不管是男或女，来说，初恋是最重要的时刻。原因是因为我们都会把差不多所有的第一次给了对方，如：初吻啊，第一次偷偷的想牵对方的手等。。。
所以，回忆会是非常深刻，非常多的。
就算是很久没见面了，感觉还是会有一点点的。就算那个感觉是怀念。。。同样还是感觉啊！！所以看了昨天的娱乐百分百后，我非常非常的担心！
他们。。。会不会复合呢？？不.可.以.啊！！！！！！
家齐说不可能，但他的话能信吗？？
好烦好烦哦！他就不能再等多几年吗？？至少也可以等到明年吧！！给我一次机会啦！我连招都还没出就给我打抢了。。。这样行吗？会很不公平噢！
Friday, February 26, 2010
可以用华文写了！！
终于可以用华文写blog了！
抱歉，我的华文不好，很多字应该会写错，如果想笑就笑吧！
我是不在意的。
更何况是你呀YQ！
如写了什么错字就要告诉我噢！
嗯。。。我不懂要写什么了。
你们应该很奇怪为什么我会突然想用华文写。。。
其实如果你是了解我的话，你应该都猜到我的企图吧！
是有关我的罗志祥噢！
猜到了吗？？
哇哈哈哈哈！！
猜不到就算了！
可是如果猜到了。。。
别说出来噢！
就当那是我们的秘密吧！！
Thursday, February 25, 2010
My top 10!!!
10..Knows how to cook
09..Speaks many languages fluently
08..creative/imaginative
07..cute in his own way
06..always be himself
05..very smart/always wanting to know more things
04..sensitive
03..funny
02..great physical appearance
01..GENTLEMEN!!!!!
**Luo Zhi Xiang has 8 out of 10. That's good enough! Considering how impossible it is to get 10 out of 10. He got all top 8 and lacks only number 9 and 10**
Top 10 physical appearance
10..hopefully no piercings
09..nice hands (as in clean and short fingernails)
08..acne free skin (almost)
07..has great smile/nice teeth
06..tanned skin
05..tall (178-185cm)
04..curly hair
03..nice toned muscles
02..deep eyes/nice eyes
01..NICE LIPS!!!! ........super important!!
**Luo Zhi Xiang has again 8 out of 10. Which again is really good considering it's impossible to get 10 out of 10. He lacks only number 4 and 10. But he looks great in his piercings...**
long time no type...
1..I won the public speaking competition!! Yay me!! I would be a little more excited about this if I didn't know that after I win, I have to represent the school to district level. WHAT?? I know I don't say this a lot, mostly never, but I really have no confidence in this. I need uncle Stan!! And I mean, really need him. I need some motivation...like fore say...Luo Zhi Xiang as the champion's prize??
2..Hmm...if you have read number 1, you probably know that I'm back on the Luo Zhi Xiang crazy train. I'm not sure whether this should be a happy thing or a bad thing. I mean, you know how very crazy I can get. I have to focus on my studies this year!! I can't be dreaming fantasies that are obviously not going to become real. Although, there always will be a 0.01% chance that he will fall in love with me. Just think positive...right?? At least it helps me to stop looking at curly eyelash guy and motor guy. Because, they are SO not his match!!
3..I have so many homework that I should have finished before today. But like I said, I'm getting lazy again. I have stop!! I keep giving myself stupid reasons to not do it now or then or afterwards when I really should have just sat down and do it.
4..I am starting to NOT believe the things I see on TV or the internet. I tried to look for Luo Zhi Xiang's blog, but what I found wasn't really convincing. What am I going to do? And because of this whole Luo Zhi Xiang crazy thing, I'm beginning to change my mind about my future. I mean, I want to meet him don't I? Should I sacrifice my future for that 0.01% chance? Although, I really do like directing. But I guess I have to leave in to faith. If we were meant to be, we will meet no matter what. Right?? Haiz...
5..My future...what am I going to do with it? Why does people keep bursting my bubble? Can't they just give me their comments and be done with it? It IS my future, NOT theirs!!! They say don't follow your interest cause you can't make a living. But then they say, time waits for no one but money can still be earned back. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!! I need uncle Stan!!!
6..I have to work on my self improvements. I'm getting fat and I look disgusting!! My freaking big nose is ruining my life!! I wonder whether I should go to Korea and get a nose job. But I'm so strict on the whole 'natural is best' thing. And I have to admit that I am scared that they will mess it up. Well, unless I find the best guy around to do it.
7..I think I'm really over Tom. I don't think about him much anymore. To me now, Luo Zhi Xiang is THE best. I love his new album!! All his songs are so meaningful!! Even though he didn't write them, the way he sings it makes me wanna drop down to my knees and cry. I mean, I totally understand what he's going through!! Oh God!! Why can't he just pick me and be done with it??!! We are obviously meant for each other!!
Monday, February 1, 2010
falling apart...
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Not so interesting...
Next about YQ, hmmm....what am I suppose to say? I knew something was wrong from the minute she said she wanted to go back after choir. At first I didn't know what happen, although I did have a good guess, but after reading her blog I totally know what went wrong. I would say it's not my fault but then I would be lying because the truth is, I can barely remember what I did at the choir meeting. I only remember walking in and walking out. What happened in the middle was a blur. She said that I shouted at her. I think I was shouting at everyone that time. That's why I couldn't remember doing anything bad to her. I was so tensed and annoyed at this one new member who wouldn't sing. For crying out loud you're in a choir!!! If you don't want to sing then get the heck out. So anyways, I'm really sorry to YQ if I hurt her feelings because I can barely handle myself now.
Which takes me to my other problem. What is up with ALL the homework?? Am I graduating college already?? It's like there is never enough time to do anything. I think I'm going crazy. !st with the choir and now with all the homework? I've given mt best at trying to finish it off by myself but I've found out that once you stop you won't want to go back and do it. You just feel like you deserve a break and slack off. And what is with that English teacher. Does she have too big saliva glands or something. And she thinks that she is the best when she's so obviously NOT!!
And about Jia Quan...well let's just say he won't be hanging on for too long. I know his type all too well. They say 1 thing to you and totally does another. He'll give up chasing me sooner or later. For me, I have some bigger tiger to hunt. Although I still can't decide whether to choose curly eyelash guy or motor guy. Motor guy seems kinda into me so things would be a little easier.
What else happened?? Hmmm...oh ya...my friends mother passed away. It's so sad!! Just hearing about makes you wanna cry. But of course it's better not to do so because she would get very upset. It just goes to show that the world is so unpredictable. We should do what we can now so that we know we've done it before we regret not doing it.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
self training...
Those are the words I keep repeating to myself. It's been 1 full week and I'm already so exhausted.
How am I gonna last til November 22nd?? I'm afraid that I'll collapse before March even comes. I didn't even watch TV for 3 days this past week. A new record. Besides what I have to do now, tomorrow and what I haven't done, I have no more time to think about anything else. Well, except boys but I only start to think of them when I see them so it doesn't count. Not only that, I feel so tired everyday and every night. And hungry. I have to stop eating like this or else my diet plan would not work. The strange thing is I'm not as obsessed with Tom as I used to. And, I kinda like studying and trying to finish my homework on time. It feels like my time is so full and organised. It's kinda cool knowing what you have accomplished and what you're going to do next without needing to try and remember what you were supposed to do. This is all thanks to my cousin. Gosh, I really miss having her around. It feels like she's still here. I miss her SO much. And her brother (also my cousin, of course), honestly, I couldn't really look him in the eye the whole time he was here. He's that good looking. And 2 of my friends already thinks he's hot. Like DUH!! Too bad he's my cousin though. You know, I've fantasized about me and him together. Gross, I know but just hear me out. I can't remember where I heard this but what I heard was that if you wanna make sure that you like someone in that special way, just imagine what it feels like when you're kissing him. And so I did, and guess what, it was revolting. I mean, sure he's cute and all but once I imagine us kissing, I felt like I was gonna puke. I feel really embarrassed about thinking of him in that way. But at least I'm admitting it. And over it.
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
sigh**
Anyway, it's kind of a long story. It's about my mom and dad. Yup, he's back. I'm kind of torn in between now. A part of me want my dad to go back now and everything would go back to normal. But the other part of me wants him to stay a little longer. Since I don't know when I'll be able to see him again. Hmmm...I don't really want to say what happened just in case I'll cry again. But I'll say a few things though.
When I came back, I asked my mom whether she'd eaten dinner or not. She replied: "What if I haven't?"....I said: "Well, then you should eat something." My point is, why did she say that?? I mean, I was just wondering whether she'd eaten anything and what? She thinks I mean to say something else? Does she not get me at all? And ever since my dad's back she's been treating me like I'm on his team or something. And it's only to me. I know she thinks I get all of it but I still have feelings. I don't blame her or anything but she has to think of SOMEONE ELSE once in awhile.
If they (I mostly mean she) just stop hating each other and look closely, they would see that they're more a like than they think. I can't really remember what it is they share but it's there. But then again, maybe everything's not what it seems. Maybe it's not as easy as I think. I regret so much right now for being the more understanding one. If I didn't know that much, maybe I wouldn't feel like this every time this happens.
