Hot tempered!

Urgh!!!
I can't stand it when people don't do what they're told!!
I don't push them, I simple ask them to do it.
But no...
They still don't follow!
In the end, I am the one doing everything.
I also really can't stand it when people don't give me a straight answer.
But who can??
I ask and ask but still no answer!
A 'maybe' is NOT a straight answer and it's the most annoying answer a person can give.
It's either a yes or a no.
Is that so hard??